The other day, a couple people on Facebook commented on an upcoming event I’ve got posted there, wishing there were more events in their area. This was my reply (a little bit expanded); I hope you find it useful.
If you want to see events near you, the answer is to set up an event near you and see who says they can come. Don’t wait for someone else to set it up.
It could be a nature hike, or a pub moot (getting together for dinner and drinks), or a book club, or a meet-and-greet, or visiting some local museum with Viking or Scandinavian or German themed exhibits, or a full-blown blót, or coffee at the local Starbucks, or a viewing party for the premier of Vikings on History Channel, or a movie night at your house, or anything else.
But the onus is on you to make it happen. Come up with an idea you think is fun, interesting, or relevant. See who’s in your area who can come. Worst thing that happens is nobody can make it.
And if nobody shows up the first time? Keep doing it. You never know when someone is going to stumble on your event who’s twenty minutes away from you. Keep at it. None of our kindreds or tribes were built overnight. We all kept at it, over years. Don’t be afraid to try, and don’t get discouraged right out of the gate.
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Put your event up on Facebook, but don’t just rely on Facebook! Ask your local AFA folkbuilder to get you in touch directly with other Afar (I love that term for AFA members). Put up notices in your local Pagan bookstore. Put up something on Witchvox.com (it’s old, but active, and people still go there). Join a local pagan or heathen group on Meetup.com, or start your own. If there’s something more locally relevant, post something there. Hel, I put up fliers in local grocery stores and laundromats.
And don’t be afraid of the personal touch. I make it a point to ask everyone I see wearing a Thor’s hammer if they’re Asatru or not. One of our newly regular faces was someone I happened to meet in the parking lot of the local supermarket. I gave him one of our flyers, and now he’s a regular. (That’s another thing; always have a card, or a flyer, or something handy. I keep a stack of them in my car at all times, for exactly this sort of case.)
And if I can offer any advice, or help, or anything else, just ask. Or better yet, ask your local AFA folkbuilders. That’s what they’re there for. I’m just a guy with a tribe in New Jersey.